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A Serbian Diary 2002
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Introduction
In 1998 I visited Serbia for the first time.
I made some good friends there, despite the difficult times the region was experiencing.
I returned the following year, but left only two days before the NATO bombing started, after a panicky trip to the airport with a car low on fuel.
Whilst it was good to be home, I was very concerned for my many Serbian friends in the months which followed.
Many people in Serbia and the surrounding region suffered greatly throughout 1999 and the following years.
This year, for the first time since 1999, I was able to visit Serbia again.
What follows is a brief diary of my return visit.
Richard Littledale
December 2002
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Day 1 - Tuesday November 26th
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Passage through Belgrade Airport is easy and Andy is waiting, cheerful as ever.
As we weave our way out of the airport, a helicopter buzzes insistently overhead and policemen fuss around the airport's main entrance - an important politician is flying out tonight.
Heading out of Belgrade, we cross one of many bridges mended after the bombardment in 1999.
We feel the strange sensation of bumping over the join.
High above us a fighter roars into the night sky on afterburner.
In the villages we negotiate the narrow streets past the cottages and smallholdings, admiring the brand new traffic lights on the way. My hosts are Sladjan and Jaroslava, both graduates of the School and now working on staff. We make friends over a simple meal and a dictionary and Jaroslava issues me with a pair of checked slippers for my stay. Many Serbian houses keep a big basket of them by the door to welcome the visitor.
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Day 2 - Wednesday November 27th
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At the early morning prayer meeting the singing is wonderful, accompanied by several guitars and bongos. Boro leads the study on Psalm 43 but feels compelled to share another verse too. It is Joshua 1 v. 8 -9 and has always been a special marker from God for me. It would seem that I really am meant to be here!
At the end of the prayer meeting, Elenka, a student in 1999 and now a member of staff, remembers me. She is delighted to hear that one of her paintings now hangs on my office wall.
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Elenka's painting
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Classes get under way with Ira, the translator, and all are attentive.
One man, a refugee from Kosovo with a gruff voice, grasps my hand firmly and welcomes me as a "dear brother".
When the second session finishes early, another man tells me that "we love you already"!
After lunch I walk around the village in the brilliant sunshine.
The old cottages, with their crumbling paint in pastel shades, are a delight.
My (very old) camera attracts many stares from local Schoolchildren.
Back home, I make an unsuccessful attempt to find the World Service on short wave radio.
Instead, I find English radio from Tirana, Radio Kuwait and 'Voice of America'.
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Day 3 - Thursday November 28th
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"Do not let this Book of the Law depart from your mouth; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it.
Then you will be prosperous and successful.
Have I not commanded you?
Be strong and courageous.
Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."
Joshua 1:8-9 (NIV)
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Practical day today.
After breakfast and prayers, fellow teacher Howell and I take a long walk around the village.
The base of all the tree trunks is painted white - a help on poorly lit roads.
In the deep ditches at the side of the road there are piles of fresh ash where all the fallen leaves have been burned.
We pass the Baptist Pastor and others working on a huge 700-seater church.
On our return to the School, we help the students write Christmas Greetings to their supporters in the UK.
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In the afternoon we visit Boro and his wife Snezana's (Snow White!) home.
It consists of three rooms on the side of a bigger house - into which they are squeezed, along with their toddler and teenage daughter.
They have made great sacrifices to come here and do so, again, as they share some of their tiny resources of food and drink with us.
At night, nine of us squeeze into the jeep and bounce along unlit country roads to a nearby village.
The students sing and share their testimonies at an evangelistic rally and Andy preaches.
The church itself is a stark contrast to their vivacity.
Their final song is followed by an old hymn led on the vibrato organ.
One of the students is from the next village and we stop off at his parents' house for tea, pizza and much laughter on the way home.
Ivica delights us all with his impression of the rough 'Balkan man' and our host shows us round his home-made greenhouse, where he has grown 95 pepper plants this year.
On the way home we dodge into a field and douse the lights on the jeep - enabling us to surprise the students in the car that was following us from behind!
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Day 4 - Friday November 29th
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The teaching goes well today, as we pick our way through the complexities of sexual propriety.
Later, one of the students bares his soul and we pray together.
He is grateful to God for his time at the School and longs to serve Him in Bosnia.
However, first he must return home for a while.
We pray for strength as he looks to God for the future.
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A Serbian village scene
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Outside the School, an old woman in traditional Slovak dress is bent almost double with the effort of carrying her shopping home.
Her patient Alsatian, clearly used to this kind of thing, yawns expansively and lies down on the pavement beside her.
This evening translator, Ira, and her boyfriend join us at the house.
This makes for an evening of multi-lingual fun - Serbian, Macedonian, Slovak, English and a bit of Bulgarian thrown in for good measure!
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Day 5 - Saturday November 30th
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A Serbian building
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I wake to the sound of rain like ball-bearings being fired down the wide metal gutter outside my room.
A cockerel crows in the distance too but sounds very muted by the rain!
In the classroom, role play on guidance makes for some riotous learning, as we discuss ways of 'getting the message across'.
It is Silvjia's birthday today and the sunshine comes out on her face when she is presented with a birthday cake over lunch.
Outside the sun is shining too, as a wedding party makes its way through the village into the mayor's office for the ceremony.
Meanwhile, a wizened old lady taps past us with a stick, bent over under the weight of her bags.
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Tonight, I find myself unexpectedly attending a youth meeting in the town with Andy.
Thirty to forty young people are packed into a small room behind 'The gallery' - a recently opened Christian craft shop.
They are here to say goodbye to one of their number who leaves for his military service tomorrow.
They sing and worship with delightful enthusiasm and then present him with a Bible as they promise to pray for him.
Another man, who has already been through his time in the army, exhorts us all to be soldiers of Christ and heroes for God.
Later, over fizzy drinks and sickly banana cake, I chat to one of this year's students.
She is a former School teacher who found it hard to speak English after the experiences of 1999.
Now, however, she is glad to practice it.
Vlasto, a student from the class of '99, comes across to greet me and to enquire about the children's health.
Last time we met, he told me that he would 'see me in heaven'.
We are both glad not to have waited that long!
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Day 6 - Sunday December 1st
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It is drizzling in the cold grey light early this morning as I make my way round to the School to meet Pista.
It is three years since I last saw him, with a war and much suffering in between, so I am very excited about seeing him again.
Whilst I wait, I chat to my two translators for the day.
There is Srdjan, nicknamed Chuky after his home village, who is one of this year's students.
There is also Mariana, who lives in the village only at weekends and studies graphic design in Belgrade during the week.
My heart melts as the door opens and Pista ambles in.
We hug and I clasp his face in my hands.
It is so good to see him!
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As we wend our way through the villages, men are gathering in the fields to hunt and a huge old windmill looms out of the mist.
Pista begins to recount his story since last we met.
In 1999, the week after my visit and hasty departure, he was conscripted and sent to the front line in Kosovo.
There he was issued with a pair of binoculars and a field telephone and told to warn the anti-aircraft battery of NATO airstrikes.
It was a hopeless task and the shock of the bombardment left him incapable of concentration or conversation for weeks afterwards.
The one bright spot was that during his 25 days he was given the nickname 'priest' and entrusted with counselling and comforting his fellow soldiers.
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A Serbian war memorial
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We pull into the drive at Pista and Gizy's little home and Gizy is waiting.
She admits that she, too, has felt like "a child on Christmas night" waiting for this day.
On the way to church she explains that for many weeks she was unable to walk and that I am the first visitor she has been able to welcome to their home this year.
What a privilege!
I confess that last time I saw her, in poor health even then, I was unsure that I would ever see her again.
Earlier this year she slipped into a coma, unable to move, swallow or see.
In the midst of that time she could see the silhouettes of people standing around the bed and knew that it was the people far and near who were praying for her.
When she came out of the coma the doctors asked why she had been smiling when she was so ill.
'Because there were people around me', she explained.
Life is still not easy.
Her right hand is very weak and she has to take a cocktail of drugs every day to keep her alive.
However, she is grateful for the healing she has received.
When some in the church chided her for being so busy this week she explained 'this is a joy for me to do, because Richard's coming is a family visit'.
I am humbled to be so loved.
It is wonderful to see the church in its new home - an old restored German house.
When we arrive, Pista shows us around, including pointing out the 'bedrooms' (which turn out to be bathrooms!).
In the main room, someone stokes the wood-burning stove in the middle of the room, whilst Pista sets off to start the worship.
As the service gets under way, I look around at the faces of those whom God has saved in this city.
We have prayed for these people!
As the song 'My Jesus' reaches its crescendo, Gizy breaks with Serbian tradition and stands to sing.
She explains afterwards that she is so thrilled that God has healed her legs that she doesn't really mind about tradition!
After a pot of delicious Hungarian goulash which Pista has made, we chat for hours over Turkish coffee and cake.
Pista's vision is as great as ever and he wants to see many more in the town reached with the Gospel.
In the courtyard of the new church he would like to build a playground for the town's children and an open-air stage.
Together we watch the video of greetings from Teddington and Pista and Gizy explain how our gifts have always arrived on time and have made life so much easier.
They still treasure the fact that they were 'adopted' by Teddington when they first graduated and that the partnership has gone on.
When it comes to the time to pray together, the three of us, and at least one of the translators, weep as we do so.
Life has been so hard for them but God has been so good.
Last stop of the day is a surprise birthday party for a church member.
Pista takes his oldest guitar - the one he fished out of the River Danube - and provides musical entertainment.
As the coffee flows and the creamy cake is passed around, Gizy nods with a smile at those in the room.
'All these people are fruit', she confides.
Thank God.
We make two attempts to drive back to the School, as Pista forgets his wallet on the first.
Their tiny car wheezes along the back roads as we talk and laugh together.
Parting is hard, as I step out of the car in the village.
We hug and I assure them that they are loved and remembered by so many in Teddington.
With a final goodbye we hope that the next parting will not last three years!
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Day 7 - Monday December 2nd
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A Serbian village scene
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It is bitter cold today as I walk to the School.
It is the traditional time of year for slaughtering the pigs and a poor old pig passes me on his unknowing way to his doom.
He seems perfectly happy as he chomps nonchalantly on a corn stalk in the back of the farmer's truck.
Meanwhile, in the farm opposite the School, an old English sheepdog keeps incongruous guard over all he surveys.
Not surprisingly today's session on sex and marriage brings a flood of questions in the classroom, as well as some more sensitive ones in the break.
These people are keen to learn and keen to do the right thing too.
Ivica lightens the atmosphere by asking what he should do about the old man who says that his beard is a stumbling block and should be shaved off.
All seem pleased with my response that he should shave half of it off to keep the complainant happy half of the time!
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At the close of the session there are some questions relating to Orthodox traditions in Serbia.
The students want to know what it is best to do when invited to a Saint's day or festival.
Will they set a good example by caring for the person who invited them or a bad example by appearing to compromise?
Another question relates to the Orthodox tradition of placing food on the graves of the recently buried.
We talk about the implications of this and then a former refugee from Bosnia brings us right back down to earth.
'Don't knock that food on the graves', he says, 'you are very glad of it when you are a refugee'.
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Day 8 - Tuesday December 3rd
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I decide to walk through the market today, just as it is setting up.
As I do so, I disturb a small flock of turkeys.
They look somewhat like guinea fowl, with flecked grey feathers and white heads.
As I pass by they flap off into the mist.
A local dog is not so shy and head butts me vigorously all the way around the market until I am safely off the premises!
Over breakfast I make the mistake of asking which colours I need to make the Serbian flag.
This causes an argument about whether the Serbian or the Yugoslav flag is meant, whether to take any account of Montenegro and whether it wouldn't be better to use the Croatian flag anyway!
The students agree, with much laughter, that this is a demonstration of the Balkan problem in miniature!
After a busy day teaching, I interview Ira who has been working as my translator.
I ask for her views on translation for my studies into the parallels between preaching and translation.
After this, a student has asked to meet with me.
His heart is in church planting and he wants to talk about some of the possibilities and challenges which it presents.
He is grateful for the opportunity to pray together and will continue to pray about it during his forthcoming nine months of military service.
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I decide to be brave tonight, and negotiate the local florists to buy some flowers for my hosts.
After refusing on grounds of linguistic inadequacy at my first attempt I retreat to the School to ask for instructions.
Armed with my phrase "mali buket, molim", I return to the shop, explain that I am English and speak no Serbian and ask for the flowers.
The florist obliges and her elderly companion continues to smile and speak fluent Serbian to me throughout the ten minutes it takes her to wrap the flowers!
As I head home with my purchase, an owl swoops low over my head out of the dark trees.
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Day 9 - Wednesday December 4th
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With the session under way, we plunge into a full-blown discussion of women in the church, with a predictable amount of disagreement.
One older student confides that she would love to believe in a greater degree of involvement for women but feels that the weight of history is against both men and women changing their minds.
I encourage her to believe in her ability and to serve as she can.
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"Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong. Do everything in love."
1 Cor 16:4-6 (NIV)
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After a break, we close with a session on 1 Corinthians 13, which all enjoy.
They are precious moments as people pray verses 4-6 for each other in pairs.
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Over lunch I am amazed at how many thick slices of bread the students consume with their hot food.
It turns out that they are taught to do this as children - since it can fill up an empty stomach when there is little money for other food.
One man shares his story, through a translator, about how God saved him from the depths of organised crime and set him on a new path.
Over coffee, a small group try to explain to me the complexities of the Republika Srbska within Bosnia - without success!
Outside, there is a drizzle of cold rain as I walk past the amusingly named "Dim" boutique on my way home.
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Day 10 - Thursday December 5th
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Last sessions today but, first, the final prayer meeting of the term.
Gathered in a circle round the dining room, one of the leaving students leads us through Psalm 49 and then we pray for all five who will scatter across Serbia and Macedonia.
In our final session, we compile a reply to the Apostle Paul to test what we have learned from his letter.
The students rise to this challenge with enthusiasm and humour and produce the letter in the panel (right).
At the close of the session, Jan, from a nearby village, gives a vote of thanks for the practical teaching and presents me with a gift from the students.
On their behalf, he wishes the family and me a happy Christmas.
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Dear Paul
Thank you for your encouragement.
Thank you for warning us about the bad things we do.
Thank you for challenging our understanding of women.
Thank you for 1 Corinthians chapter 16 v. 13-14.
Thank you for being an example to us.
Thank you for your love and care, and for showing us how to use the gifts.
Please come and visit us.
Why did you speak so much about yourself?
Thank you for sowing the seed of which we are the fruit.
See you in heaven
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Over lunch, the students give me something else to remember them by.
I ask if one of them will make me a Turkish coffee before I go and he duly does.
It is only when they are watching me intently as I drink that they reveal they asked him to make it extra strong!
Tonight, four of us squeeze into a 26 year-old Renault 4 and head off for a town near the border with Hungary and Croatia. Jan, a local fireman, is driving and students Chuky and Ivana are squeezed into the back.
On the way, we have to negotiate unlit hairpin bends and a bridge only partly mended since 1999.
When we arrive, the service is in full swing with people sitting on plastic garden chairs and the song numbers stuck on the wall on a sheet of paper.
Our old School chairs have to be brought in from the yard and cleaned off.
They are too cold to sit on, so someone folds an old curtain over them for us.
With the next meeting due to start in ten minutes, we scream into town to eat a burger in a nearby bar.
My companions warn me not to let my English voice be heard in case the bill is doubled!
Afterwards, I speak at the high School students' meeting.
At first they are shy but we soon find ourselves in a deep discussion on the power of holy ambition.
We pray for each other and talk on over drinks.
Time to go; and we head off into the countryside, sharing testimonies in broken English and translated Serbian as we go.
It's hard to tell where we are in the darkness.
When someone asks Jan, the driver, where we are, he answers (not very hopefully), 'Vojvodina' - a vast province of Serbia!
On entering the village, we stop at Jan's house where he fetches me two huge bags of paprika made from the peppers he has grown and dried.
They will appear in dishes on many English tables!
Outside the house, we pray together before we part.
After a full night and a full ten days, it is time to give thanks and head our separate ways.
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-Soli Deo Gloria-
See also: A Serbian Diary 2004
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